Thursday, April 30, 2009

Thursday April 30th, 2009

It is 1:25am and I am just getting to a point that I can get an update posted. Ryan has been is severe pain in his abdomen and neck. Our hospice nurse had to make a return trip to help Ryan with his pain. Ryan is very uncomfortable at the moment and we are trying to find a position that will allow him to rest and not be in pain.

These posts are very hard because I want to keep you updated, and give enough detail for prayer requests, but not every little detail we face.

Thank you for all of your support.
-Brad

61 comments:

Anonymous said...

Stay strong Ryan! We'll be praying for you! You hang in there good buddy! -Andy (Lima OH)

Anonymous said...

Praying for all of you. Praying that Ryan finds comfort and a pain free position. God Bless You All.

Anonymous said...

Dear Brad, Susan and Ryan, with or without posts, in the middle of the night, when the darkness is so close, God is there with you and so are all of us. We appreciate your updates but know that we will continue to support you no matter what.

Anonymous said...

The one blessing we can be sure of is there is a God who created us after His own and He loves us more than we can love ourselves. We may not understand things of this earth, but someday His glory will be fully revealed. We encourage you all to reach out to Him as we do. His shoulders are broad and faith in Him is comfort unlike any other.

Amy said...

Praying for all of you. May Ryan's pain be removed. May you all feel God's comfort and warmth, and may you receive strength from Him.
God Bless.

Mamalindaw48 said...

Dear Salmons Family,
You continue to be in our prayers!
Love, Linda and Al Wells

Anonymous said...

i'm continuously praying for you all. i hope ryan can find some kind of comfort & get some rest. stay strong, god works in mysterious ways.

Anonymous said...

God Bless you, Ryan!
You are in everyones thoughts & prayers

Anonymous said...

Ryan, We are praying for you tough guy! We pray for your comfort and strength. Brad, I know finding the time for updating us is difficult, but thank you for keeping us posted when you can. Our love and prayers are with you, your family and that precious young man!
Teresa Hoffman

Julie Walker said...

Ryan...my prayer is that you are lifted up from this pain...taken to a new plateau, and give a new threshold where your pain will be mitigated...Brad...your witness of strength, support and unyielding love for your son has proven to be one of THE greatest inspirations that I have ever received. SO many people are praying for Ryan, for you and for Susan....God sees the tapestry of Ryan's life from His perspective...He sees the entire picture. We, on earth, only see the backside....stitches of color dotted with knots. We rarely see the "right" side of the picture. But God does...and He knows what stitches, what colors, what knots have to happen in order to make it complete. Continue to walk in faith and hope. God's work is perfect....His timing is perfect. Thank-you for continuing to inspire so many...so many. Hugs! Julie

Anonymous said...

Ryan, you are still in my thoughts everyday! i pray that you are not in any pain. keep strong man! lots of people care about you!!!

<3Jen

The Toskin family said...

Praying for Ryan, and the whole Salmons family. We are asking that Ryan's pain be relieved through the power of prayer.

Christine L Ferguson said...

It's in God's hands now. Your comfort awaits you in Heaven.

Prayers, prayers and more prayers!Peace be with you buddy!

Such much love and gratitude to dad!

Anonymous said...

Ryan and Family, Your strength is inspiring and uplifting to all who know you. Praying for peace and comfort and no more pain. God is watching out for Ryan. The Davidson family is here for you.

Anonymous said...

Brad,
Dale and I are praying for Ryan everyday. I pray that he finds pain relief and peace. I know that Hospice will do everything they can to keep him comfortable.

Love and hugs to you, Ryan and Susan,
Dale and Mary

Anonymous said...

God gives out only as much as each of us is capable of handling. Your post is a testament of the amazing strength that Ryan and the rest of your family have.

Christ has risen! and with his triumph over death has given us mortals a chance for everlasting life. Stay strong in your faith of God, and when he does call us, remember that we pass not from life to death, but from life to life, where there is no pain, sorrow, or suffering. May the blessings and mercy of God be with you all.

Laurie said...

Ryan,Brad and Susan

We are praying continuously for Ryan. We feel very helpless to our friends at a time like this. If we can do anything,please call. Ryan we love you and don't understand why you have to go through this, but we know God is with you and has a plan. Still praying for a miricle.Praying for you all.

Laurie Grossman
and
Family

Jason Savage said...

Ryan,

God bless you and your family. You continue to inspire more people than you could possibly imagine with your bravery and your passion.

Brad, you continue to do the fathers of the world proud. We continue to pray for your entire family.

God bless,
Jason Savage & Family

Anonymous said...

Brad, Susan and Ryan-You all continue to be in our prayers. We know that this is such a difficult time. I hope that you find some relief for Ryan's pain today. Thank you for the updates on the website. Stay strong. John, Trisha, Christan and Ian.

Fran said...

Ry-
luv you.....Momma Fran.......

Guardian Angel Prayer

Angel of God, My Guardian Dear
to whom God's love commits me here.

Ever this day be at my side
to light and guard and rule and guide.

Amen.

norrese said...

ryan, brad and susan,our prayers and thoughts are with you 24/7. your friendship over the years has been great. stay strong and keep fighting.
jeff and nancy

Anonymous said...

We pray for peace, comfort and no pain. May God our Father who is merciful be with you now and always. Peace be with you. Terrie (Scott) Carter (Adam Carter's mom 11/1/91 - 3/25/08)

Anonymous said...

To Ryan and family,

Hang in there and know that God is wrapping His loving arms around you all. Ryan, you have fought hard and well. You are an inspiration to us all! I pray that God provides a miracle, but if not then I pray that you will be at peace. I am proud to be able to say that I went to school with such an amazing guy. May God continue to bless all of you during this time. (Joshua 1:9)

Erica Rogers

Nan, Jen & ^Andy^ Buel said...

Your family is in our prayers.

Nan, Jen & ^Andy^ Buel

pj said...

We are praying for Ryan and family.

pj said...

Praying for Ryan and family.

Anonymous said...

peace and love. thinking of you always. love mike and missy

Chris Ulvin said...

Dear Ryan and family,
I was just recently introduced to your courageous spirit via my nephew - Nick Raitt's blogspot. I appreciate your postings being sent to my email as they help me say a prayer for Ryan in real time. After reading today's posting I just had to write to you. Over fifteen years ago, friends shared with me many God-incidences they experienced with their adult son who battled cancer. He too was very uncomfortable during his last days on earth. One time, his parents went into his room first and prayed that God would comfort him so that he could get some much needed rest. Their son was in his room only a short time when he emerged stating "I will never get any sleep with all those people in there trying to comfort me". May God send "a few" of His angels to comfort Ryan. He also shared with his parents over lunch one day - "Mom, dad, it is like we are having lunch together here on earth and we'll see each other for dinner in heaven". I give God praise and thanks that we will have an eternity to fellowship in heaven with the saints who walk here on earth - Ryan is one of those saints I hope to have dinner with. God bless everyone who has been woven into the fabric of Ryan Salmons life. In Christ's love, Nick Raitt's aunt.

Cory Holliday said...

I have been praying for a miracle for Ryan everyday for months. Every night before I go to bed if I am to tired to do anything else I make sure to pray for Ryan. I have even fell asleep praying. I am so glad I got a chance to be in Ryan's life and be able to be his friend. He has changed my life and I know other people feel the same. Nobody else would have been able to fight as long as Ryan has. He is a true worrier! Brad and Susan, getting to know you guys has been a blessing also. I will continue to pray daily for Ryan. And I am always here for you guys!

kristi said...

Ryan, you and your family continue to be in my prayers!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/elizabeth
take care!
Kristi & Elizabeth
(Pickerington, OH)

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Find peace in your love for each other and in your faith. Your families enduring strength is an inspiration to so many.

Anonymous said...

You all are never out of my thoughts and prayers. I am spending sleepless nights with you from the other side of Grove City and sending over lots of love! Amy Leigh C. ( Mike and Missy's cousin)

Anonymous said...

Ryan,
You are a true inspiration to all those fighting cancer. You are a hero!

I am praying for relief in your pain and you are able to rest.

Know you are loved by so many and you have touched so many lives.

I have never met you, but am touched deeply by your strength and courage.

May God Bless You and Comfort You and Wrap his loving arms around you and your family!

Anonymous said...

My prayers are with Ryan and his family several times daily. May he find comfort and peace. May your family find comfort and peace. May he be pain free. Update us as you can...........but spend every second with a most special son. He's touched more lives than you can imagine....and he is deeply loved in return.

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

May peace and comfort be with you.

Alyssa

Anonymous said...

Love you ry! Keeping fighting, you are truly amazing and i am blessed to be friends with you!
Emily Cochran

Anonymous said...

Keep on pushing forward Ryan, we're praying for you everyday! All of Davidson is pulling for you too :)

Allison

Anonymous said...

Praying for you all. May Ryan be pain free.

www.caringbridge/oh/oliviagood

Anonymous said...

Ryan - you're in our thoughts and prayers always - God Bless you and your family

Anonymous said...

Ryan,
your in my thoughts everyday. your the most amazing person i know! stay strong bud.
love you bunches!
Jenn Mason

Anonymous said...

we love you ryan ! i hope you find comfort in knowing how many people love and care about you !!!! god bless you and i will keep praying ....

Anonymous said...

Dear Brad, Susan & Ryan,

We are keeping you in our daily prayers. Know that God is watching over each of you, giving you comfort and strength.

Ryan, you are a true inspiration to everyone. We pray that God continues to bless you All.

The Bauer Family
(Ryan has known you since Britton)

Anonymous said...

My heart is breaking for you. My thoughts are never far from Ryan and his family, and a prayer follows every thought. This is a difficult time and you have all been an example of courage and strength. God is the great Comforter and we are praying for peace within your spirits and mending of your hearts.

Anonymous said...

We are thinking of you Ryan and Brad. We wish you both comfort in this stressful time.

Anonymous said...

May you rest in peace Ryan. You are a true inspiration :o)

-ky

Anonymous said...

Ryan-

Fly high up there with those Angels and look out for all of us down here. You have a special place in so many peoples hearts. The number of lives you have touched is absolutely amazing. You have amazed so many people with your courage and strength and I cannot wait to see you again someday. You fought like no other and I'll cherish my jersey and tshirt next blue jackets season. You'll still be there.<3

lawrence said...

Ryan.


If you read this, please know that Jesus loves you. Everything we see around us is temporary but our reward is in Heaven. Even though your tired and in pain, Jesus is using you to reach others. How many people will change their life by watching you and seeing your faith in difficult times? One day you will find out. Be at peace my friend. 2 Timothy 4:6-8

Lawrence

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

If you read this, please know that Jesus loves you. Everything we see around us is temporary but our reward is in Heaven. Even though your tired and in pain, Jesus is using you to reach others. How many people will change their life by watching you and seeing your faith in difficult times? One day you will find out. Be at peace my friend. 2 Timothy 4:6-8

Lawrence

Anonymous said...

I've just heard the news from Trey Martens' family. Trey and Ryan are together riding in Ryan's Corvette. I can see them smiling and laughing. I will forever remember Ryan and the closeness of his family. You are in my prayers. Remember that you are loved by family, friends, and strangers because of Ryan. God Bless you in this horrible but yet glorious time. As was told at Trey's funeral - how many times did you say you would gladly trade places with the one who is suffering - now you have. He is no longer suffering but you are. You are not alone. God is with you and so is Ryan.

I can't express the sorrow I feel for someone I've never met but yet has had such a profound impact on my life. Peace be with you and your family.

Anonymous said...

May you rest in peace. May all of us remember your strength and love. I now pray for your family and friends and they find comfort in the days to come

Anonymous said...

When I must leave you
For a little while,
Please do not grieve
And shed wild tears
And hug your sorrow to you
Through the years,
But start out bravely
With a smile.

And for my sake
And in my name,
Live on and do
All the things the same.
Feed not your loneliness
On empty days,
But fill each waking hour
In useful ways.

Reach out your hand in comfort
And in cheer,
And I, in turn, will comfort you
And hold you near.
And never, never
Be afraid to die,
For I am waiting for you
In the sky.

DCP said...

Ryan,

I learned of your story only recently. I do not want to express my sorrow of your passing, but rather make note that you are an inspiration and a hero. Many people do not realize just how good they have things. You lived life every day until your last, making the most of it and always with a smile.

You are a hero among heroes.

Anonymous said...

Brad and Family,
We are so sorry. Many prayers are being said for all of you.
The Alfriend Family

Anonymous said...

R.I.P Ryan! You fought a long and hard fight. We will always remember you. You were such an amazing young man.

The Lord Family said...

Words can not express our sorrow - Brad and Susan and the rest of the family, we are still thinking of you and will continue to pray for your comfort and peace. Know that Ryan has touch the hearts of many and will be remembered forever.

Cathy, Lee, Ayron Bryon and Coryn Lord
Jackson, OH

Anonymous said...

R.I.P. Ryan. You were an amazing guy and will never be forgotten. I think I speak for the whole class of '07 when I say that you will be missed and never forgotten.

~Erica Rogers~

Anonymous said...

I just read on the Dispatch blog that we lost Ryan today. My sympathies go out to the Salmons family. I never met Ryan except for this blog, but feel a temendous sense of loss. Ryan inspired me in so many ways over the past year, and for what he endured, he earned his wings today. Rest in peace Ryan. Have a safe trip to heaven. God Bless.

Brian said...

Brad and Susan,
My condolences to you on Ryan's passing.
He definitely put up a strong fight!
My thoughts are with you and your family!

Brian Montague

Anonymous said...

You lived a short life, but it sure was full. I am so happy that you were able to do what all you did.

You refused to lose and you know what...you didn't lose...you defeated death and your reward is with the Angels for eternity.

RIP Ryan.

Anonymous said...

Good times in geometry class man, your courage is unbelievable, it was truly a privilege to have known you.

Brandi said...

Brad & Family,

I did not have the privilege of personally knowing Ryan, My daughter is a Davidson Student and is how I came to follow your family and Ryan's Fight AND WHAT AN AMAZING FIGHT IT WAS!

Words cannot express the the gratitude that we all owe to you for sharing your family with us. Ryan has and will continue to enrich so many lives through his amazing courage and strength. I pray at this difficult time you find hope in the midst of your sorrow and comfort in the midst of your pain.
SOMEONE SO SPECIAL WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May Ryan rest in peace.